All You Need To Know Regarding Wedding Planning
Your wedding should be a day about you and your partner. Letting others get too involved in the planning process (even if they are paying for it) will only result in a day that doesn’t reflect the two of you. This article has ideas on how you can make your wedding your own, and keep an eye on the budget at the same time.
If you are planning a big family wedding, be sure to assign roles for people in your family during the wedding. Honoring and thanking the people involved are very important. Make sure that moms, dads, grandparents, and other important people are given a role that they are comfortable with doing.
Two months before your wedding, which is the equivalent of eight weeks, you need to make sure that the application for your marriage license is underway, the wedding rings have been ordered, you have selected and ordered a wedding cake, accessories for the bride and bridesmaids are taken care of, and that your invitations have been mailed. Keep a list of your RSVP cards coming back to you to make the final count tally much simpler.
When planning a wedding, even far in advance, it’s important to keep a record of your ideas on paper. If you plan everything verbally, it’s easy to forget things, or have disagreements later on things that were never clearly stated. If you have a record of plans that have been agreed on that can be updated as you go, your wedding will go much more smoothly.
Weddings are similar to many other major life decisions in that they have a financial cost. However, because a wedding is an exceptionally emotional event, it is easy once you begin planning to go overboard and spend more than you can afford. Before beginning the planning process, it is important to set a budget with your significant other and stick to it. While a wedding is a special event, remember that you are not marrying the debt!
Depending on the size of your guest list, you will need to consider that the location you choose for both your wedding ceremony, and reception must be within a reasonable distance of each other. It will make it convenient for your guests to get to and from. Providing directions in your invitations is also very helpful for your guests once you have secured your locations.
If you will be having a wedding where many of the guests are out of town, you might want to consider sending out a save the date post card that just serves as an announcement of your upcoming marriage. It will help these guests start planning and making it more likely that they will attend.
There is no way to completely get rid of that stressful feeling from planning a wedding. You can, however, take control making sure that you are getting what you want and your partner wants without offending everyone who is trying to help. Use the advice here to make all of these things a reality.